Cancer Update

I often reflect on three different unrelated cancers in two years including metastatic melanoma in my lungs and brain and marvel that cancer is a past tense reality. I have not been sick since 2019 other than the mildest case of COVID ever when that was popular. My quarterly scans since immunotherapy ended in October last year have shown that the cancers are gone. I’ll have another set of scans probably in November and then slow the pace down after Dr. Mashru and I celebrate next week.

Teaching

I am progressing to my goal to get down to being a full time professor before I die. Last year was at 1.9 FTE on the clock. I’m contracted at 1.4 FTE for fall, but it seems likely that will increase in spring with some new developments in the Leadership Cohort offerings. Happily Gale Heidi is working with me to learn and take the heavy role of MABL Program Director. Western is strategizing increasing the cohort based classes so we’ll be adding some new sites over the next year. Gale and I are working hard to increase the teaching team to accommodate that but it looks like I’ll add one more cohort in Spring until we can find and prepare those faculty.

TheosU Classes

TheosU is a subscription based Bible College and Seminary done from a Pentecostal perspective. I flew to Nashville in January and July to record classes on Grace and Spiritual Warfare. Connecting with folk who are deeply committed to Jesus and from a different tribe was a blast. I also got to hang out with great friends including Jeremy and Monique Birt and their tribe. Jeremy is recording reflections on the Bible, going chapter by chapter. He has his ponderings but also questions from his family including Sophie, their 3 year old. It’s called New Song Bellevue. Check it out.

Family Time In Tuscon

Donn and Michael did a LONG father-son road trip that took them from Kansas City to Dinosaur National Monument (think fossils and wild water rafting), then the train from Williams to the Grand Canyon (same trip Sherr and I did with Cyndee last summer), got robbed!!, and then to Tucson (where Sherry’s sister and brother live). Sherry and I flew down to join the fun. Donn, MIchael, Tom, and I did the Tombstone experience including the shoot out at the OK Corral! Then they went on to Carlsbad Caverns to see the bats emerge and walk the cave before driving back to KCMO.

San Diego

Sherry, Cyndee and I took a week long trip to live with the animals: the Zoo, Safari Park, Sea World, Discovery Center (with huge turtles and rays!), Birch Aquarium and maybe most exciting of all, a boat excursion to travel with the Dolphins. And the Pandas of course!

Sherry’s arthritis limits her mobility and both Zoo and Sea World require a LOT of walking. So she had her first experience in an electric cart. It enabled her to go everywhere but was unexpectedly difficult since she had to keep griping the “go” lever and that made her hand hurt. It also has no brake so going downhill and relying on the motor to stop was unnerving!

I marinated in radioactive juice again on Monday (AKA a PET scan). The results are exactly what Sherry and I hoped to see. After three different kinds of cancer in two years, including melanoma that had metastasized to my brain and lungs, it is nice to say that medical science cannot find any cancer in my body! I will talk with Dr. Mashru on May 31 to get his direction for next post-cancer steps.

Sherry and I traveled to Kansas City to celebrate Donn’s 55th birthday with steak dinner, Michael and me doing the grandpa/grandson walk to McDonalds, Michael’s first guitar recital, Breshears boys at Top Golf, Elizabeth’s corale winning gold at a state choral competition and a Sunday evening concert at Redemptorist Cathedral and a lot of family time. Concert 1, Conert 2, Concert 3, Click on the links to see video’s of the concert. Elizabeth is wearing the head covering.

I had a nasty gall bladder attack very early last Wednesday morning. I was directed to the ER where they found a 6mm gall stone in the neck of the gallbladder. I was admitted to the hospital with surgery to remove my gall bladder on Thursday, which was truly a Thanksgiving blessing, if an unusual one. I certainly don’t want another attack! One friend noted that I was like the Thanksgiving turkey with its giblets being removed.

While I was in the ER, I did my phone appointment with Dr. Mashru, my oncologist. He officially confirmed that I am done with immunotherapy and both cancers (bladder and melanoma). I will continue blood tests and periodic CT scans for a while. One very happy result is that I am no longer on the blood thinner which a couple of small blood clots in my lungs necessitated, so the all to common bruises on my forearms will be a thing of the past – I hope!

I am doing well, by God’s good grace. All my systems are functioning normally. My only discomfort is where they punched the four holes in me and that is minimal. I opted out of preaching at Grace last Sunday which made Sherry very happy. I went back to normal life, traveling to Boise on Tuesday for the last session of that cohort and to visit grandkids. Then I returned home Wednesday for all day classes Thursday and Friday, hosted 5 cohorrt students, went to the children’s musical at Grace Friday and Handel’s Messiah on Saturday.

The other Thanksgiving event was that my niece and nephew, Rashelle and Mike McKim were waiting for their son, Connor, to get home from his station in Corpus Christi. They didn’t get to greet him – he was killed in a head on crash. Sherry and I will go to Austin this weekend for his memorial which will be the family reunion we’ve been wanting but for a very different reason. He was an outstanding young man, baptized as a young adult, an academy graduate, a marine, committed to his family and his girlfriedn, full of life and hope. Connor’s obituary is here.

The end of my immunotherapy treatment is in sight! Dr. Mashru has confirmed that he expects to finish infusions as of November 29. The big step between now and then is a PET/CT scan on November 2. Assuming that comes out as he expects, we will stop at the end of two years.

The Nivolumab has been effective to stop the melanoma. We are praying and hoping that it is dead and the nodules in my lungs are just clumps of cells. I will have monthly blood tests and scans every 3 or 4 months after treatment ends.

Men’s Round-Up

David and I have made Men’s Round-Up at Camp Tadmor a father-son event for the last decade. It is a very special place for him since that’s where he met and courted Samantha. This spring, Joy married Nathaniel and Nicole married Colton so this year I was very proud to add two new grandsons-in-law to the event. We had a great time with stories, sessions, disk golf (not me), and lots of food.

After the Saturday morning session, David and Colton were in deep conversation so Nathaniel and I joined them. It turned out Colton was pondering joining in the Sunday morning baptisms! We explored options and he committed. So at 8:30 they were at the lake (sadly, I was teaching my workshop to another 100 men) and David baptized Colton. You can watch the video here.

David sent the video to Nicole, saying “take a look at this.” She opened it expecting some disk golf event only to realize it was her new husband being baptized and promptly burst into sobs of joy. We all joined together for lunch an hour later.

I had an in office appointment with Dr. Mashru, my medical oncologist today. That’s the first time we have been in the same room in many months. My blood work has been fine for all those months which is wonderful. My recent scans showed one new small melanoma nodule in my lung. That new nodule prompted him to change from pausing immunotherapy after Wednesday’s session to continuing them through the end of June. Then there will be another scan and another consultation.

I am still trying to assess my reaction to this new nodule. It doesn’t really concern me, but any new growth must get serious attention, which Dr. Mashru is giving it.

At Sherry’s request I had Dr. Mashru take a look at a rough spot on my back. He looked carefully, gave a initial suggestion that the skin lesion was a skin cancer of some kind (not melanoma), took a picture and sent it to my Dermatologist. She soon messaged me saying it looks like a “seborrheic keratosis” which is a scary phrase. But she also noted that Dermatologists refer to these benign growths as “barnacles” 😊 So I laughed, thanked her, telling her I am looking forward to my July appointment where she will give me a complet skin check.

I have to admit my bigger emotion is toward Joy Love’s Saturday wedding in Stanfield with Donn and Elizabeth coming from Kansas City and Cyndee coming from Cannon Beach.

My 42^nd Western Seminary commencement on Friday and Saturday was a wonderful event. As MABL program founding director, I get to hood all the graduates in the program. There are so many stories in this group of men and women, including two babies born to students this semester. Very productive time.